Trust the Process.
Philly readers will recognize this as the 76ers' motto, given for their Moneyball-esque efforts to bring top talent to Philly and win a national championship.
So what is the process? I wrote weeks ago: "the process behind achieving a goal or developing a habit" is the key for accomplishment.
The process is the plan and work required on the path to achieving a goal. The goal is the end result, some far-off dream sitting elusively awaiting your future self.
The process is about the here and now. And wow sometimes it can be mundane.
Macklemore, rapper, husband, father, and recently golf-brand creator, went through a process similar to so many artists.
"There was a grind and a hunger to turn those really [bad] situations that I was in early on into great shows. That's what turned me into a good performer, it was a decade-plus of doing shows like that."
Seth Godin describes the process as "a pattern of small bridges, each just scary enough to dissuade most people. The practice requires a commitment to a series of steps, not a miracle."
As we commit to our own series of steps to tackle career, personal, or physical goals, I have to remind myself of an important piece of the process: enjoy it.
What is a small pleasure that brings me joy that I can do today?
Macklemore loved to be on stage.
I eat ice cream after big Ironman training sessions.
Small pleasures and rewards give us that rush of dopamine, but in a less scientific way we confirm to ourselves that we are on track.
By creating a process you love, the journey will be just as sweet as the destination.
With the internet, "if you put out a song or get some buzz you have one record that everyone knows. Before it was like, you need to pay dues and work really hard for a really long time."
During the process: self-soothe and systems.
Effective people self-soothe in order to go from failure to failure while maintaining their enthusiasm.
The process can involve a practice of self-affirmation as well. Reward yourself along the way. Before you reach your final destination. You deserve it.